Should we love our children for what they do or who they are?

Over 50 years ago, the psychologist Carl Rogers said just loving your child isn't enough. He said we had to love our child unconditionally. We've assumed that Rogers was right- but is this at the core of our hyper-parenting, where all the kids get trophies? Can it create entitled children without direction? Journalist Alfie Kohn tackles this question in the New York Times.




